- 20 May 2004 02:50
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That they have not been immoral is true for the most part. However, when you force your decisions on others, ruining their potential, that is when it is immoral. When you don't feed your child because you spend all your money on drugs, that is immoral. You are limiting that child's potential. I personally think that you are wasting your potential as well, but that is your choice. But when you limit the potential of others for your own gain, that is wrong.
My response to this is simple. When it gets to the point where it is "natural" potential, then it is immoral to destroy it. I think that comes around when you have sex during the woman's fertility stage, and you do not take any precautions. Now there is a big chance that their will be a fetus, that will likely grow in the womb, be born, and grow to be an adult.
I disagree with you here on a fundemental level. I don't think it stifles the potential of the father and mother when they have a child. I think it instead enhances it. But I don't think we are going to be reconciled on that level, so I don't see the point of arguing about it.
And whether or not the person becomes great or not is a chance I personally am willing to take. I would rather trust in the person to become good, then worry rather they would be good. Maybe I am an idealist, but I have faith in the human race.
What if you knew the child was going to become the person that brings about world peace? Or what if you knew it was going to be the person that detonates a nuclear warhead in the center of Bejing? Obviously if we knew this, it would be a much easier decision, right? I am not sure of the correct answer here, but I do know one thing. We don't know what is going to happen, so I believe the most moral thing is for life to take its course, not stifle and cut it off for whatever reasons, selfish or not.
1] Our whole lives are full of denying potential. By taking the decisions we have taken, we have probably denied ourselves the opportunity of being far richer and happier, and making the world richer and happier.
2] But our decisions haven't been immoral - even though they might
have led to more unhappiness - because they were performed normally with good intentions of maximising happiness.
That they have not been immoral is true for the most part. However, when you force your decisions on others, ruining their potential, that is when it is immoral. When you don't feed your child because you spend all your money on drugs, that is immoral. You are limiting that child's potential. I personally think that you are wasting your potential as well, but that is your choice. But when you limit the potential of others for your own gain, that is wrong.
5] Of course, the standard rebuttal of potential when it comes to abortion is a reductio ad absurdam. Namely, if to kill a foetus is to stop a 'potential' new life, then so is not to get pregnant, so is not to have sex, so is not to be on the look out for a new partner, so is not to rape someone if you're desperate. Yet, society would have problems saying any of the latter are 'more immoral than murder'.
My response to this is simple. When it gets to the point where it is "natural" potential, then it is immoral to destroy it. I think that comes around when you have sex during the woman's fertility stage, and you do not take any precautions. Now there is a big chance that their will be a fetus, that will likely grow in the womb, be born, and grow to be an adult.
6] Of course, the potential argument also does not take into account the potential in the lives of those already living. A mother will stifle her potential, a father will stifle his. Sometimes their lives will be practically 'potential-less' if they have a child under adverse conditions. And, at the end of the day, the child could be the next Gandhi, but then again it could be the next Hitler. Coming from a dysfunctional family, where the mother didn't want it, it is probably more likely to be a Hitler.
I disagree with you here on a fundemental level. I don't think it stifles the potential of the father and mother when they have a child. I think it instead enhances it. But I don't think we are going to be reconciled on that level, so I don't see the point of arguing about it.
And whether or not the person becomes great or not is a chance I personally am willing to take. I would rather trust in the person to become good, then worry rather they would be good. Maybe I am an idealist, but I have faith in the human race.
Your 'killing a person in the street' example is another bad analogy. Because it is killing a person, instead of a non-person. If you *knew* this person was definitely about to top himself successfully, then it is probably not as bad as killing someone in the prime of his life, but it is all a bit contrived and meaningless from my perspective.
What if you knew the child was going to become the person that brings about world peace? Or what if you knew it was going to be the person that detonates a nuclear warhead in the center of Bejing? Obviously if we knew this, it would be a much easier decision, right? I am not sure of the correct answer here, but I do know one thing. We don't know what is going to happen, so I believe the most moral thing is for life to take its course, not stifle and cut it off for whatever reasons, selfish or not.