- 14 Jan 2004 06:47
#78305
I'm not sure if you would prefer to bump an older thread or to post thoughts in this one, so for now I'll just post here.
My problem with abortion is twofold. From a religious perspective, I believe that life begins at conception, and that from that moment, the child has a right to life, and abortion violates that right. Now I understand the concept of a woman's rights, but to me in the absence of rape, the decision was made to accept responsibility for the consequences of her actions (namely, having sex), when she participated in that activity. It may sound cold, but I don't believe that I can shoot my 3 year old if I can no longer financially support him, so I don't think it matters how young the child is, I don't have a right to kill him or her. Nevertheless, I concede that this point of view is based mostly on my religious convictions, of which it's hard to base public policy on.
My second objection however, is all about fairness. Let's say that a woman get's pregnant, and that she wants to keep the child. She can pursue various legal avenues to force the father to pay for child support. Now let's say the shoe is on the other foot, and the woman wants an abortion but the man wants to keep the child. Not only does the woman not have to pay for child support, but the woman doesn't even have to carry the child to term, since it would be a violation of a woman's right to choose to make her keep the child and forfeit it to the father of the baby. The problem I see with this is that the man is responsible for his actions to the woman, but the woman shoulders no responsibility if the man wants to keep the child. Quite simply, it's biased against males. I think that IF we allow abortion in the cases of consentual sex, then the decision for an abortion should likewise be consentual.
"Never put passions ahead of principles. Even if you win, you lose."