Qatzelok wrote:The connectedness to other people that the inner city can provide.
You're not reading. I knew all my neighbors. All the kids in the neighborhood played together.
Qatzelok wrote:Proximity to people of different ages, classes, and backgrounds, from whom to learn.
Our school had people from all backgrounds and social classes. Our neighborhood had much the same.
Qatzelok wrote:An understanding of your role as a primary part of your own society.
We all learn that. What the fuck makes you so fucking special that you think people don't learn this?
Qatzelok wrote:A wide range of activities that aren't "barbecues and watching hockey on TV."
Outdoor sports, flying kites, riding bikes, playing with the kids/pets, reading, making tree forts, fishing, worked in the garage with dad, mowed the lawn, made an ice rink in the from yard in winter, skated and played hockey with other kids, shovelled snow, made snow forts, played in the snow, played in the nearby parks and ravines... the list goes on. Read what people post. You come across as a pompous twit when you ignore what people post and then cherry pick.
BBQs, incidentally, were of the kind where the whole neighborhood came together and socialized(as a community). Isn't that what you real beef is all about... this not happening?
Qatzelok, you claim so much knowledge about suburbia, but you really have no fucking clue. Suburbia is like any environment(including the "inner city") in that if you want isolation, it doesn't matter where you are, you can find it, or create it. Your hatred of media, and ego, blinds you to the fact that not everyone spends 6 hours a day in front of a TV being assaulted by it, and most people recognize it for what it is, and don't fall victim to it.
I'm really sorry that your experiences, wherever the fuck you grew up, were not as good as those who lived in suburbia. I can understand your hatred of not having something that was very desirable for most people, because most of suburbia IS made up of close-knit communities, that you dream about.
If things are changing, it's not because of suburbia(environment), but the people living there.
“Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson