If one wants to migrate to or live within the European society, benefiting from the lack of war and general chaos, would it not be wise to actually assimilate one's self into the society one has chosen to take refuge in?
Yes, they should. Even if not to European countries, they should adjust to fit the culture and tradition of the country they reside in.
To the larger question of Euro/Arab & Muslim relations, it is asking for trouble to be allowing mass migration of these refugees. Especially acknowledging recent history. The results cannot, and are not...good for anyone. All this hopeless exercise serves to do is aggravate an already tense situation. It's DUMB! And the results are NOT acceptable.
Before hand, not all of them are refugees. In Europe a large portion of the "refugees" are not from Syria or Iraq or the middle east in general but rather they're African migrants from all sorts of nations going through Libya and Morocco to Europe and saying they're refugees.
The main wars producing refugees are in Syria, Iraq, and Afghanistan. And most of those refugees are in the surrounding countries like Lebanon, Jordan, Turkey, Iran,etc. And they're in the millions. Each one of those countries hold similar if not greater number of refugees than that of Europe as whole, both registered and non-registered (turned migrants when started working).
Then take into account what happens to these refugees afterwords. Here comes in NGOs mainly from western or Gulf state funding. Whom would rent entire apartment blocks for the refugees, in hand raising rents. Make deals with retail corporations to give food cards to refugees for free, raising food prices. Paying most of the refugee's bills, and many more give aways. Then those refugees start working after some time, usually a year or so, and they can afford working for far lower wages and compete with native workforce. Thus increasing umemployment, increasing poverty, damaging the overall economy, lowering living standards,etc. Which makes people angry, and thus increase civil unrest and starts to destabilize the country.
This is how your governments and elites are doing economic warfare against some countries in the middle east. If you looked at the countries where the refugees are, you'd know why.
For the ones in Europe, you just have to let in some of the people who want revenge. Get a few terrorist attacks here and there. And you get public for further intervention. Because you know, war on terror.
A look at the propaganda pieces being produced and the constant fear mongering in core western countries is sufficient to tell you this. Only a blind person wont see the game after its been played constantly again and again for decades since post WW2 with only the subject changing.
And BTW, you keep complaining about terrorist attacks. Well, here is the thing about terrorist attacks and Islamist terror groups in general currently.
They're all funded by your allies in the gulf states with money gained from trade with you.
They all use weapons and equipment built and sent by you either directly or through your gulf allies.
And most of all, they all just happen to be targeting countries that are either hostile or simply refuse to submit to you and your gulf allies in about 99.99% of the times. Which in this case is us.
So while, yes, i do understand where you're coming from. I think its understandable where someone like me for example would be coming from when listening to people living in core western countries complaining about terrorism, generalizing about Muslims or Arabs or middle easterners in general, and blaming it on us. Instead of taking a look at what their governments and their allies are doing and how they're creating these problems.