- 23 Jan 2009 03:01
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The thing is people who think highly of their own opinions begin to feel that theirs is the only truth, that their experiences and truths are applicable universally, which is why views of differing social, religious, political, and economic classes tend to clash so mightily. 'It works for me so it must work for everybody' attitudes. What is left out is that not everybody has, knows, and does what everyone else does. Once a personally held truth is contradicted, it ultimately becomes 'wrong', because, hell, 'I can't put into the context of my life'.
My favorite example is that poor people don't suddenly gain the knowledge of responsible money management upon gaining wealth, nor can rich people fathom the consuming and overwhelming difficulties of poverty. Neither side can comprehend what the other goes through, yet both ends of the spectrum loath the other.
Why? Because they feel that they just know the other side, from what they learn from the media or through the grape vine. They just know. Or at least they think they do. The poor think that all wealthy people are slimy capitalists who are out to steal their money and the wealthy think that the poor is just a filthy, writhing mass that is just too lazy to do better for themselves. I feel that misunderstanding is the greatest dividing wedge of society.
We wished for gold, but not the strength to carry it.