Oxymoron wrote:Laws protect women from termination due to pregnancy,
Laws protect women from termination due to pregnancy when an employer is foolish enough to leave evidence that this was the reason for the decision
I've seen enough cases based on wrongful termination go south because it was not possible to prove that pregnancy was the reason to not rely too heavily on legislation.
Nonetheless it's true, improvements are being made, forgive my cynicism as it's not wholly on point.
Oxymoron wrote:so after taking their short leave they can get back earning money. Obviously there are issues of baby sitters, and other child issues but they are not insurmountable. It might mean no Wii and less dining out.................
Actually, what I was thinking of was the 'time off' part. You can indeed go back to earning money, but you will go back as though you have taken time off from your career which is precisely what you
have done. Any opportunity for advancements you may have made during that time have been lost. This usually means you are in a poorer financial/career situation than you would have been had you chosen to delay having children...particularly if you have not yet acquired job security or benefits like employer-paid parental leave etc.
It's fairly simple...take a teacher for example. For each year you teach, you receive a certain increase in your salary. If you take a year or two off to have children and go on parental leave, that means you have lost a year or two in increases in pay. In addition there are a number of careers where taking such an amount of time off leaves you seriously behind and perhaps with a nearly obsolete skill set. These are things that you really do have to consider and be aware of when you're thinking of having children. I'm speaking from a purely practical real-life standpoint here.
Oxymoron wrote:
I think investing in goverment subsidized preschool and day care. perhaps helping small businesses deal with absense of a worker, and perhaps help them create inhouse daycares, or coop daycares.
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I think these are great ideas, and indeed we're seeing just these kinds of things in some areas. Quebec has subsidised daycare for $7 a child per day...I was paying $1500/month for two children in Alberta. If I'd had one more child, my entire paycheque would have gone to childcare, making it pointless to work at all.
Although, I feel the quality was better, but...not enough better that I'd want to return to that cost.
I also like the idea of keeping people's skill sets up while off where that is necessary...perhaps providing childcare and having a few one day sessions. And good lord, inhouse daycares? That would so fucking rock.
However, families need to make decisions based on what resources are available to them, and sometimes it's just not economically wise to have children too young.
I feel in my case it has worked out though, and makes me more employable as I won't have potential employees wondering if I'm going to leave on maternity leave right after I am eligible for benefits.
Oxymoron wrote:No I didnt say the system is setup with family in mind either. What we have is an economic/social model that is invalid and will result in majour issues down the road. I am not blaming this on women, or feminists, or any one group rather its a combination of consumer culture, sense of entitlement, and the goals of self satisfaction.
It's insane. Two incomes is hardly enough to make ends meet, even if you aren't consumerist pigs...just making a mortgage payment on a modest house in many places is going to eat up the bulk of your income.
I'm still living cheque to cheque and I pay a paltry sum in rent, have small manageable debt payments per month, don't own a car or have any other major expenses....and I don't even own a television much less new furniture or other expensive consumer goods. I have a decent income compared to most (albeit I'm a single mother so it's not a two income scenario for me yet, but still...damn!).