junebug wrote:I for the life of me can't understand why a women who made her fortune portraying herself as a sexual object in the public should be looked at as anything but a sexual object...she chose that role it wasn't a forced social role that she had no control over...with the role comes certain drawbacks, and perhaps advantages as well. Drawbacks in this society are obvious, I am not going to blame parents for wanting her no where near their children...
So... should a man, Michael C. Hall(
Dexter), be banned from anything related to children, because he makes his fortune portraying himself as a serial killer? Sex isn't nearly as bad as murder!
Fact: You can find a lot of film stars who had shady starts in their careers. Look it up. There's a LOT of them, and a lot of sex scenes and nudity on the internetz.
Would Pamela Anderson be given the same problems? She was in a porn video. Or is that something that people don't focus on, because she's done lots of stuff since then? It's just double standards.
junebug wrote:If a gansta rapper was reading to the children parents would also not be too happy with it...parents censor their children about the friends they keep, the food they eat, the behavior they have, the school they go too, what they see on tv etc....that is their right
Yes. They can do this, by keeping their kids out of school and home-schooling them and isolating them from anything bad in society. Their kids will grow up sheltered, and go on to do the very things they don't want them to do, because they weren't educated about them.
It's not the school's job to know the parent's individual tastes.
If my kids were still young, I don't think I'd have a problem with Sasha Grey reading to them. If they asked me who she was, I'd tell them. I'd then explain to them about her previously chosen career, so there wouldn't be any confusion. In short, I'd educate them, instead of censoring. (The only case of censorship I ever did for my children was to make them leave the room during the News because they were showing a German reporter, who was trapped and injured in a minefield, screaming in pain. I later explained to them the reason.)
“Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson