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#15012185
I really am in need of someone, just one person please, to debate this issue with me.

Everyone seems to think that porn is unhealthy and all of the reasons given are easily refuted from my point of view, and I require someone to be able to get my thoughts and ideas out there.

I'm glad to hold an unpopular view and be able to defend it against others.
#15012187
The only pornography that I think is acceptable is femdom, jerk off instructions, virtual sex (fake sex, when the actress(es) pretend to have sex with the camera, you thinking that it's you), and educational sex.

Porn videos that have dominant men, hyper masculine men, and too many excessive tattoos should be banned because it influences viewers to be more socially competitive, which is a symbol of a capitalist culture.
#15012189
Ok. So the thing is that I'm probably an anomaly. I'm willing to bet that I'm an extreme case where NONE of the alleged dangers of porn can apply to me, and to understand why this is I think people would have to understand my past and my relationship with life and sex and everything else.

I can give my own reasoning for why porn is healthy for me to watch.

But I want someone who feels strongly about the other side to debate me semi-formally
#15012200
I disagree with the OP. Pornography promotes fantasy, sexual fantasy. I think fantasy should remain in the adolescent years. Adults need to be realistic and not let fantasy consume them too much. Porn is dangerous if people get so obsessed with it, that they have so many sexual fantasies that they want to impose on ordinary people. Ordinary people probably do not have that much stamina and they are probably not as flexible or willing to be in some of the rougher positions that porn favors. So disappointment sets in if the partner is not very flexible for example.
#15012214
Agent Steel wrote:MistyTiger, why is it bad to have sexual fantasies? For me they are a lot of fun. Are adults supposed to not have fun? Is that what you're saying?


Don't ask women what porn to jack off to. You will always be wrong. If i remember correctly James Deen is the latest trend for females or at least was for some time when I had such a discussion with some friends couple of years back. Males usually don't care or have a varied taste. And don't kid yourself our local pofo females do it themselves although are shy at admitting it. Better question is why females have so many sex toys compared to males ? :excited:
#15012215
Beren wrote:So porn, or even sexual fantasies, should be banned because you're not flexible? :lol:


Hey, let's not make it about me. You cannot ban either porn or sexual fantasies. I am not very flexible, no. I am not a pretzel. :lol:

@Agent Steel It is not bad to have sexual fantasies, but once we put the pressure of fantasy gratification on others...it may not turn out as expected. The guy may not orgasm during the fantasy due to it being lame for example. Feelings will be hurt. Adults can have fun. It is just more fun if we just let things happen, without expecting the partner to be as wild or crazy as the people on camera.
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#15012218
Agent Steel wrote:MistyTiger, why is it bad to have sexual fantasies? For me they are a lot of fun. Are adults supposed to not have fun? Is that what you're saying?

I guess she's rather saying you should have the right sexual fantasies, which you won't get from porn, because women are too flexible in porn, for example. However, the best may be if you don't have sexual fantasies at all. :lol:

MistyTiger wrote:Hey, let's not make it about me. You cannot ban either porn or sexual fantasies. I am not very flexible, no. I am not a pretzel. :lol:

Porn could be banned actually, but you're right that it wouldn't probably do much about sexual fantasies. ;)
#15012224
MistyTiger wrote:@Agent Steel It is not bad to have sexual fantasies, but once we put the pressure of fantasy gratification on others...it may not turn out as expected. The guy may not orgasm during the fantasy due to it being lame for example. Feelings will be hurt. Adults can have fun. It is just more fun if we just let things happen, without expecting the partner to be as wild or crazy as the people on camera.


I think what you should be doing is seeking out a person who can share your sexual fantasies. That seems to me to be the way to maximize your amount of fun and pleasure. That's what I do when I search for someone, and that's how I get the most fun out of my relationships. But even when I don't do that and I just find a woman randomly, I've never had her reject my fantasies.

Again I'm speaking from personal experience; I don't have these issues that you and other people are talking about.
#15012261
On the bright side, @Agent Steel, at least you aren't bragging about sucking milk from your wife's tits. :D

That reminds me of the joy of sucking milk from my wife's full breasts.
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