[Puffer Fish]

If any of you have wondered just how far social mores have fallen with the younger generation, this story might provide some of you with some insight.

They are teaching this stuff to college students now, that "open relationships" are acceptable and normal.

I find this type of story "unbelievable"... and yet, not all that surprising.

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Disaster7045

I (28F) pressured my husband into opening our marriage, and now he is divorcing me to be in a closed relationship with his GF

TL;DR - I pushed him to try open marriage, and less than 2 years later he wants a divorce. He already lives at her place and I'm completely broken.
I don't know where to start... after we got married I finally confessed him that I am kinda on polyamorous side. It took me days to convince him that it's not just an excuse to cheat, and that he can meet other people too.

I wanted us to be one of those cool couples with 0 jealousy and toxicity when it comes to the other people.

Well, I should have seen it coming. He was depressed for first 6 months, I could see it on him, but I thought he'd be happy for me, and hoped he'd realize that this is something good for both of us. After that phase he became even colder with me, and my attempts to try to get him more involved into marriage were failing. Then finally - he started seeing someone.

It was killing me to see him on the phone with her ALL THE TIME. He then got a separate bed too, he no longer wanted to even sleep with me as his GF wouldn't like it and I felt horrible, a literal stranger was stealing my husband and I could do nothing about it. Then he'd start sleeping at her place more and more often, and now it finally happened. He brought divorce papers.

He doesn't even want to speak to me anymore, I tried to tell him that we can close back our marriage if that's what he wants but he doesn't want to even discuss anything. He just said he wants marriage and kids with her and that is tearing me apart...

What can I do to save my marriage and get back the man that I love? If I knew this would happen - I would NEVER even bring up the idea of opening anything.​

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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationsh...8 ... ening_our/


And this girl is surprised this happened? This young woman is completely senseless. But she is representative of many young women today coming out of the younger generation. They have been taught and conditioned to think that "open relationships" are normal. But what type of disaster is this going to lead to in their lives?

[ness31]

Yeah, truly despicable stuff. I guess Unis are just making mainstream what men have been practicing since time immemorial. You lot wrote the f’kin book

[Rich]

What can I do to save my marriage and get back the man that I love? If I knew this would happen - I would NEVER even bring up the idea of opening anything.​

Wow this is absolutely incredible. When I first read this read I just couldn't believe it. That someone could enter into a sexual relationship and then regret their choices. What has the world come to. Has the world literally gone insane? I mean until a few years ago, no one would even have dreamt of suggesting this. Even in the late nineteen sixties and early nineteen seventies I never heard of anyone even suggesting an open relationship let alone actually starting one.

[Puffer Fish]

I mean until a few years ago, no one would even have dreamt of suggesting this. Even in the late nineteen sixties and early nineteen seventies I never heard of anyone even suggesting an open relationship let alone actually starting one.

They used to be known as "Swingers", but they were only a small subgroup of the population. Even during the age of sexual excesses during 60s, they still made up less than 8% of the total population. But today it seems to have grown more mainstream.