- 28 Mar 2013 14:52
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OK, as a student at an elite European university I wouldn't say I am 'impoverished'. But I am a 27 year old independent, mature student; so I don't have a rich family paying my fees. I am very much amassing a lot of debt, and living a frugal existence in a shared house.
Now, I have had many jobs in between my first attempt at college and my current stint in higher education: I was a combat engineer in the army, I have worked 12 hour shifts in a factory and I have had less-desirable or less well-paying jobs.
Even when I was earning good money in the army and in factories (overtime can make you very affluent when you're in your early 20s and live in a small town in Wiltshire) I wasn't particularly happy with my lot. I was always academic; someone who used their mind, rather than physical and someone who used his hands. I guess I know these jobs were not what I actually wanted to do.
And so I am at University, approaching my final year and preparing applications for LSE et al to do International Development as a Postgrad.
I am unable to spend freely like I did a few years back, not having to worry about my bank balance and checking funds meticulously. Whenever someone suggested a holiday abroad I would have no reservations, and was usually able to book immediately.
Now, I cannot do that. I have to budget and keep a watchful eye on my outgoings and expenditure. I don't have that liberty anymore and (especially at the moment as I await my final loan and grant instalment of the year) my activities and freedom are circumscribed by these fiscal constraints.
But yet I probably the happiest I have ever been.
I just wonder if anyone else has a similar experience or perception when it comes to their personal happiness? And why they think it is fundamentally so.
Does your happiness fluctuate more with your economic vicissitudes? or with changes in personal relationships, work?
What do people think is the key to happiness?
Now, I have had many jobs in between my first attempt at college and my current stint in higher education: I was a combat engineer in the army, I have worked 12 hour shifts in a factory and I have had less-desirable or less well-paying jobs.
Even when I was earning good money in the army and in factories (overtime can make you very affluent when you're in your early 20s and live in a small town in Wiltshire) I wasn't particularly happy with my lot. I was always academic; someone who used their mind, rather than physical and someone who used his hands. I guess I know these jobs were not what I actually wanted to do.
And so I am at University, approaching my final year and preparing applications for LSE et al to do International Development as a Postgrad.
I am unable to spend freely like I did a few years back, not having to worry about my bank balance and checking funds meticulously. Whenever someone suggested a holiday abroad I would have no reservations, and was usually able to book immediately.
Now, I cannot do that. I have to budget and keep a watchful eye on my outgoings and expenditure. I don't have that liberty anymore and (especially at the moment as I await my final loan and grant instalment of the year) my activities and freedom are circumscribed by these fiscal constraints.
But yet I probably the happiest I have ever been.
I just wonder if anyone else has a similar experience or perception when it comes to their personal happiness? And why they think it is fundamentally so.
Does your happiness fluctuate more with your economic vicissitudes? or with changes in personal relationships, work?
What do people think is the key to happiness?