- 28 Nov 2021 16:59
Load of rubbish. Unless the man is very stupid he will get that her refusal to allow him to pay for her meal is drawing a very firm line through what he is hoping to have for afters - whether they’re at park chinois or Pizza Hut. If you want to pay for some reason which has nothing to do with getting her knickers off later, then say so. Adding a simple ,no strings attached, to your offer will do it.
No need for a long response, dr lee. I don’t know anything about your relationship with your wife, but you often show off about her being a lot younger than you, which is somehow supposed to convince people you know a lot about women. You don’t.
Don’t ever insist on doing anything when on a date, gentlemen.
You’re with a person ; not a simple minded moron who cannot make her own decisions. Or at least, don’t assume that’s what she is.
I asked my husband if he has ever given dating advice to the young guys at work. He looked at me as if I was mad. Trust me, said he, they really don’t need it.
What about the shy ones? Would you ask the girls you work with if they’d go out with them?
He said he’d keep well out of it. Sounds sensible to me.
Edit: Crantag, you should definitely go to that square dance. Look on it as a bit of exercise if nothing else.
Oh, tomskunk. Just ask her if such and such a place suits her and if not , does she have any ideas of her own where you could eat? Still , at least you are asking and not telling.
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