Saeko wrote:You are very immature and sexually inexperienced (and for once, I'm not using that solely as an insult) if you think this supports any of your points.
First you embarrassed yourself by alluding to my self-evidently imaginary intellectual inferiority, now you are doubling down by imagining my levels of maturity and sexual experience. Time to stop digging.
Women who fantasize about rape are not fantasizing about rape.
Yeah, they are. Just not real rape. I once knew a woman who fantasized about rape, and then she was raped for real, and it was horrible and terrifying -- but it didn't stop her from fantasizing about it.
Men who fantasize about fucking their own mothers (and there are A LOT of those if porn site stats are anything to go by) do not want to fuck their own mothers.
Uh, MILF does not stand for, "my own mom I'd like to <f^k>."
The fulfillment of the fantasy and its implied isolation from real-world consequences are themselves parts of the fantasy, implying a level of control over the fantasized situation that cannot possibly exist in reality.
That's true for almost any erotic fantasy, male or female (which, sorry, there are such things as).
Rape in the real world comes with all kinds of nasty, horrific consequences that rape fantasies conveniently ignore. Things like possibly being murdered, tortured, imprisoned, pregnancy, STD's, severe PTSD, phobias surrounding men, destruction and/or severe damage of intimate and/or familial relationships, loss of any sense of safety, trust in other people, in the law, in society, inability to have intercourse, loss of a sense of autonomy, self-esteem... The list is nearly endless.
How is any of that relevant to the undeniable content of the fantasy?