Saeko wrote:I wish I were a total fucking idiot, because then I could believe utter bullshit like this as easily as you do.
You may not be a complete fucking idiot but you're certainly no genius in this area or you would realise the weakness of your arguments.
Hey, smooth-brain. Did you know that there's a centuries spanning political movement consisting of millions of people and which is aimed at prioritizing respect for women's boundaries? You might have heard of it. FEMINISM!
Not only have I heard of feminism, I am a feminist a real feminists, which is why I have been a consistent opponent of Islamification. Most so called feminists today are a actually Cultural Marxist frauds. If you were really so smart you would remember that I have repeatedly spoke out to the superiority of western culture over Islamic, Hindu and Confusion cultures. Even at the time of the crusades Muslims were amazed by the freedom of Frankish (western) women. Arranged marriages were not the norm for the mass of the population in western societies either in the Middle Ages or the early modern period. And here's the kicker, arranged marriages don't work very well as a method of controlling biological inheritance, unless you keep women is a state of semi imprisonment like the Muslims do.
Humans are not just small gorillas. We have not evolved in a context where females are strictly limited to one partner at a time. This is why adult male humans produce so much sperm. The purpose of the overwhelming majority of that sperm is to hunt down and kill other men's sperm inside the woman's body. Modern hunter gather societies have often been influenced by neighbouring Agrarian Patriarchal societies. But for most of our time as a species there were only hunter gatherer societies and it was simply impossible to control women's sexuality in such circumstance.
But even in societies with arranged marriages for the mass of the population, the mothers usually had a considerable say in mate selection. That's why I asserted that overall it has been women's choices, not men that had the biggest effect on selection.